Cause and Effect

love and marriage

whole Humanity is stuck inside this cause and effect...Some peoples thinks the cause are effect and some peoples are thinking effects are cause 

Behind everything in this world there is cause and ahead of that thing there is effect of presence of that things...

marriage is an effect of Love

But some peoples thinking it is a cause of love

without love, no marriage is successful marriage.

without marriage there could be love and i think love doesn't needs a stuffs like marriage 

but that is OK if two lovers are well satisfied from each other and happy with each other and they decided to live together as they can see the love in whole world after loving each other.

the love between two people are just a gate..and that gate lets you take to the heaven 

dont you think so whenever you fall in love ... the whole world becomes differeent to you.

as a normal person the wind is same , the moutains are same the vehicle are same the ride is same 

but after love why you feel everything is different 

why you feel more beautiful

why you feel more happy

why you feel more satisfaction

why you feel freedom

why you feel so much power that you think you can sync with anything

why that flower is more peace provider

Actually love  it is a gate 

a gate where every human kind is allowed to enter in his/her original nature

you dont need to be engineer to love someone

you dont need to be doctor to love someone

you dont need to be scientist even to love someone

of-course there are lot more gates to enter in heaven 

like you can meditate, you can pray...but these gates are very  very difficult ...hardly one man goes through this gate ...

you guys tell me can you meditate a single minute...i know it is very easy but yet we cannot do that

but its a good news

if you are in love ...i think you dont need meditation to feel goodness..love itself is a kind of meditation 

love it self is a destiny and it self is a way which never ends

why i am falling in love with some one

why i am feeling so love for some one

well i think a simple answer is you feel good with that person

but dont you observe one thing

when you meet with your love ...and then after an hour you meet with you boss...or with your parents

why you have more power to deal with that complicated boss

why you didnt cared about the scold of that boss, as you often goes into deep darkness after a scold of boss

but why after a love full discussion with your sweetheart you can smile even such a horrible condition

because my dear friends when you are falling in love love tooks you to the gate of heaven 

and we hold that gate so tightly that we think that gate it self is heaven

i am inviting you step one more step...enter into such a feelings

that gate ,that love is not a cause behind all your feelings...

actually your feelings are the cause behind your love

what you are feeling is more important and surely you can keep on this feelings...but if you think the love is the cause ...its like you a holding the gate by assuming a gate itself a heaven ...one day you will get rid from this gate

you cannot love the way you love now to your sweetheart

it is fact but you can love like be her father for sometime when she is missing her father

you can protect your sweetheart like a brother when you find her in a danger

she can be her mother for sometime when i am missing my mother

the marriage is a sync of all relationship..it includes even a relationship with your enemy

because sometime you even feels that you wife is your biggest enemy

i am generally having experience

that husbands doesn't likes when wife is speaking with her friend for 2 hour

or speaking with mother for several hours

why husbands don't likes it

even wife doesnt feels good when she feels her hubby is more attached with her mother in law

because you all guys are not feeling all types of love in one thing

that boy is missing mothers love...if he is getting mother love for a moment with wife he will not go any where ...it as normal if you need water and that water is in you hand you will will go to river.

but if you need simple water pure love of mother...and your wife is serving you a orange juice

my dear friend you cannot have orange juice all the time...you need different kind of love ..but most essential part of love is love unconditionally.

you must find a common thing in all juice and that is a purity..that a pure water 

pure love of mother...and any women   

so if it is a sum of all... you cannot name it 

that pure water is life is love is everything...

it is an effect of love

love of father, love of mother , love of brother

love of sister, love of all 

love your wife like you can love this whole nature 

if you are happy you can get married

but if you want to be happy you must start seeking love inside you and outside you

which makes you happy 

and if you feel the transcendent love and that can transform in any kind of need then surly my dear it is a time to get married

if you are happy you can get marry

but if you want to be happy please don't get marry

i can make you feel happy

but i cannot keep you happy

i can just take you to the gate

now its your turn to step ahead

just take one step ..keep this feelings on and you can create the heaven in earth..

Welcome to heaven ....

thankyou