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Sunday, September 26, 2021

SWEETNESS of BITTERGOURD, or BITTERNESS of SWEETS


More you try to stop,
More your speed will increase.
All are working just for great future.
just to get a bright future , many are compromising.
many are  compromising their present for a better future.
Here there is a mechanism how these things work
first need to understand why , all want good future,
there are some other species like Ant they do arrangements for future like they 
arranges food for rainy season . because it is very difficult for them .
so to avoid difficulty in future people bring that difficulty from future to present and
they wanted to use that difficulty which is placed in the future .


it's just like someone has a bitter gourd , many people keep this vegetable at the bottom of their priority list, but just consider for example that for some reason someone has to consume it because of health reasons as doctor suggested him 

so this person wanted to consume this bitter gourd now  which is placed for the future .
here one can clearly see that one is trying to replace the product with respect to time . 

it is easy to bring that bitter gourd , but there is something which is faint and difficult to be sure that , WHAT ABOUT TODAY'S sweet. 


so if someone  put this sweet for future, hence for sure that will turn into something more bitter than bitter gourd.more over nature will add some more flavours which is out of the range of human kind consumption , that may be helpful for microorganisms like fungal and many more , but for you it is difficult to imagine.


same applies with life , happiness of life which they are now feeling  is like sweets we have NOW . it is as fresh as Morning fragnance  

lets dive little deeper here
do you know what is going to be happen with you when you will look around  after reading this ? like if you will get call from your old friend ? or your mom can remind about about the things which is still pending by just fixing your ears 
but you can feel the feeling of Now., you can enjoy and knows what is happening with you RIGHT now. 


you know better this moment ,than a moment which is waiting for you , one can only imagine or just assume regarding it , its just an assumption by analysing the present situation around us and the past.. is it an good deal if you have 1 crore rupee and just by assuming this 1 crore rupee will turn into 1 rupee in future you will plan to put that in PNB punjab national bank and that goes BANKRUPT 


google PNB india and you can see the results . those people who kept their SWEETS
and that TURNED into SOMETHING BITTER than BITTERGOURD.
QUESTION arrises 
IS IT GOOD to plan for future?
just want to correct this 
IT IS GOOD TO PREPARE for future than TO PLAN  for future  
it is good to build muscles for future than to get GUN for security
if you are able to enjoy present and feel something valuable in you, automatically your future is building itself, then one can say it is the way of preserving PICKLES of life 
as this word itself defines and says it is PICKLES , pickit very consciously. it is something  which can be done with feeling which you have rightnow and that is presntly out of your range of acceptability. you can keep that as for PICKLES.

so that is the different procedure which we will Discuss in upcoming blogs PICKLES OF LIFE  . but for now. enjoy the sweetness of  wisdom which is going to make wise.

Choose wisely be nicely 
The sweetness of bitter gourd . Better to have what you have right now.

Tuesday, December 3, 2019

RULES OF FREEDOM part 1

RULES OF FREEDOM 



Introduction:



Question Arises in mind that

why you need to read this Blog ? .



Humans have developed their Sensory Organs for information giving and taking both ways  so beautifully that ,

it gives Humans to assess those different ways of communication, which other species 

still developing , in short humans are in the top most position of communications , 

some have even developed themselves that they can even communicate with other species too. 



How about if somehow you get news that you can communicate with each particle of this universe. THIS BLOG gives you POWER to get connect to infinite.

and you just have to read it , THAT'S IT . and you will feel that you have unlocked the powers inside you. 



let's DISCUSS How we are going to execute this . with proper scientific explanation.

let's start from the beginning



History:



Since from the beginning of time when ORGANIC LIFE started in this planet we call EARTH. recently some how scientists have explored about the cause behind the birth of the first organic life on this planet which we call amoeba or paramoecium.

they got the answer by experiment that there was a lightning from sky to earth which somehow initiated the arranging some basic arrangement needed to start organic life , there was some other theories also but for now just assume this was the start of organic life on this planet . 



after years after years and centuries life evolution happen and organism developed themselves like they pass the information which they learned by decoding into DNA and passed it to another generation , another generation taken that information as a base to evolute themselves and then they certainly somehow

developed themselves able to locomote and move by themselves as per the requirement to save themselves.



once they madethemselves able to move from one place to another they was in need of develop spinal cord and so on and on and on ....

it came to humans. 



have ever though what about after human ?

we are on the top of the chain of organic life evolution .

may be still it will evolute it and we will again change in next centuries . 



LIFE exist in different forms as HUMANS are known to only an ORGANIC life, but whole universe is alive itself , hence if you want to get in touch with whole universe you need to attach  yourselves with it .

LIFE has just changed its form what we calls ORGANIC FORM . all the information since from the birth of ORGANIC life is decoded in DNA , but even deeper sense all the information is still in our nucleus of atomic arrangement regarding even beyond organic life 



the MOTO of this blog is to allow you acess those dimentions of life which were open to us but for some reason it has been got closed in past .

see you in next BLOG 



in NEXT BLOG we are going to discuss what exactly we are going to open the gates of our consciousness and how the gates have been closed. 

Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Optical illusions and What are Thoughts.

Today we are going to discuss about
What is thoughts

Thoughts
Which comes in this brain, your brain and which are just following from this brain to the this writing hands
we can simply understand this, with this illustration
see the optical illusion here.
concentrate on the center plus sign
can you see the green dot ,
yes now try to catch the green dot 
can you ?

actually there is no green dot and the more you focus on plus the more green dot will appear

why this happening
as per google and research
click this to understand it TROXLER EFFECT 

Troxler's fading, or Troxler fading, or the Troxler effect, is an optical illusion affecting visual perception. When one fixates on a particular point for even a short period of time, an unchanging stimulus away from the fixation point will fade away and disappear. Recent research suggests that at least some portion of the perceptual phenomena associated with Troxler's fading occurs in the brain.


so why this is happening?
as far as this mind concerns , this mind think on this that mind is filling the information for convenience
another example



The brain, when faced with a lot of stimulation, only some of which is considered relevant, will tune out the non-relevant parts, filling in what it can from the general area. It's a little like how the blind spot works, except this is a dynamic process. The brain will zoom in on a desired area, and the rest of the space will fade away. This is called the Troxler Effect, or Troxler Fading. It was discovered way back in 1804 by Ignaz Troxler, a physician and philosopher. Take a look at the circle to the left. Focus on the red dot at the middle. After less than thirty seconds, the circle should just fade away. The mind then fills in the area where the circle used to be with the white that surrounds it. It's worth doing an image search on Troxler Effect, since there are a ton of illusions with it on the internet. There are whole paintings that fade away. There are moving objects that disappear with enough focus. You can spend a happy twenty minutes observing your brain erase the world.


why the Brain is fooling us ?


because the brain too has few limitation , if brain fails to understand anything ,it will assign something to peceptions  to stabilize the system,
what ever the brain see is everything apart from existence.

anything you see for example color
  



what do you think about these two A and B color ?
Surface color of both A and B parts is identical. Just use a finger to cover the place where both parts meet and you'll see.

sometimes your brain lies.
why does it happens ? because brain has survival rules that's what brain is made for.
because in order to survive, the brain tricks you , 

like what you don't understand, you names them as mad , and stupid and when brain quits it still has a unprocessed part which has to be fill hence it names them in order to stabilize the system

thoughts are only this survival tricks of brain 
all thoughts are made for this.
simply it is the organ of body which stabilizes the body either by fact or by illusion.

then what about the technologies brain has achieved? 
are they illusion or reality.

my answer is still convenience.
brain has only one function to stabilize..

some times the energy is high you need to cry or laugh to take out some energy
or brain arouse the urge to talk with  someone.
 may be they are reality may be illusion
this organ is made for stability. and survival .and harmonize
so what ever we are doing is part of that .

whatever we say is only the things we unable to accept, if you accept , what is the need of saying. there is two types of thoughts one is invited another is uninvited 
uninvited  thoughts are impulsive ,chaotic , random
and invited are rational, calculative,logical
  
so for survival purpose
whatever is important brain chooses that.
 may be my brain is fascinated that it understood and it is wanting to become empty again..that's why my brain is writing this all with the help my my hands...to welcome the another understanding..(TRUTH)
 (there is connection of the fact)
or
for  survival this brain is using rational calculative thinking . well may be its impulsive but yes its confirmed that whatsoever eye am writing here is not about the fact which eye can mug-up so my brain is making a theory to accept the facts .....(ILLUSION)
another example of survival fundamental...

its loop that my brain thinks that whatever it is unable to understand , its coding into the language of stability to understand, apart from fact and illusion...its very tough to claim this theory as a fact or illusion .. may be  it is fact that its an illusion , or may be its an illusion  that its fact..or further more 
may be this whole understanding is saying you, that you understood about what you are unable to understand..  so did you understand ?
 these all are brain storm
or the eddy of water or a cyclone .

what can you do when you fall in such eddy
how can you survive?
same is with mind 

if your mind is becoming like a eddy whirlpool,
let it work you will be out automatically . but if you try to get out the whirlpool can take your life.

accept that the brain is as it is... its not easy to understand few things its ok if mind is making us fool .. because that's what it is made for..to save you from unwanted confusions .  

if the problem or fire  is small it can be solve by just blowing the wind but if the flame is big  blowing wind acts reverse it helps fire to grow..so 
you can try to solve but if you finds all ways are explored and yet the mystery is still mysterious  
you must start love .. and love the mystery and mystery will open its covering for you .    
submit yourself to the mystery ..sometimes you explores all outward ways but the answer is in inward way..

in the favor of truth and spirituality, well when one accepts the brain as it is can go beyond it.
stay with us for more information .
thank you.



Friday, December 22, 2017

See the beaker or b the speaker Choose one

If feeling are shared to peoples constantly
There is fall in sensitivity of Acquaintance in them.
So it's better to stay silent and start seldom or decrease or if possible to divert or change the mode of release of energy in case there is rise in energy of neurons.

And if there sensitivity is low, the mode of communication by which we can stabilize the system of hormonal or chaotic unpredictable behavior by social communication makes completely out of desired results.

So the way to stabilize the system by social zone comes with a Tao or law or an limitations is ,if speakers are going to make them(listeners) low sensitive.
The theory of hierarchy works here

Listeners involves in speaker only if there is something which listener is getting or wanting something which may be desired or an unexpected desire with expected deep root of wanting good feelings.
Then there will the communication will be out of the law of diminishing marginal utilities
And the utility will raise infinitely like Money music etc

Listeners avoids the speaker if there is everything which he/she is out of the context of
something which listener is getting or wanting something which may be desired or an unexpected desire with expected deep root of wanting good feelings.
Then the law of marginal utilities will work and then there will be fall in sensitivity of Acquaintance

The mode of release of energy by social interaction works depending on the sensitivity of listeners and the speaker should take care of the sensitivity of listeners.

Duality arises here , if the speaker comes in confrontation of system or surrounding of low sensitive organisation the tao works and the desire of energy emission by mode of social interaction falls but the only mode of transmission becomes close and the speaker will release that energy by different mode
In includes physical activity..

The duality is when there is listener there will be speaker or when there is speaker there will be listener vice versa. In case of context of communication as communication involves both listeners and speaker

Out of the context of communication the transmission becomes one way transmission and the only loss of energy in speaker will come in existence. Which may be call as lecture .

But the loss so energy of speaker will take the system of speaker out of the balance.
Speaker can rephrase see+ beaker.
Writing this correspondence of see beaker
The consciousness returns its way.
And the system can establish balance.

Imbalance is just illusion 
See the beaker or b the speaker
Choose one

Monday, June 26, 2017

TAO in science and life : part 2

welcome to our next part of TAO in science and life
today we are going to discuss how names has effect on us
every name is effective.
nature and the name are two different things.

we must understand this
and naming the nature for our convienence is a very hard opportunity for human kind they have ever had
but in other side the human kind is failed in this and invited the negativity
it would be good to say invented rather than invited,
yes the negativity is invented by human beings 

in human context 
if there is good there is bad
if there is love there is hatered
if there is something/someone,
humans gets dependent on that something/someone
and when that something/someone disappears from there life they feel vacant
they feel abscence.
but this abscence has been filled by some illusions 

these illusions are 
darkness

in one word i would say it darkness
and it has many extensions like sadness,hatered..etc (negative)

but the illusion is 
darkness is just an abscence of light
but if we names the abscence there the TAO will happen

LAOTZU said the NAME is the MOTHER of all THINGS
if we names something which does not exist our mind will assumes it as something.

and there the mind will form the two extremities and it will never comes to conclusion that its just the abscence
when there will be dark , mind will have illusions when it has to be vacant.
in reality there is abscence of light but our mind will assume that there is something and he calls it darkness
actually when the mind is in silence there you inner powers and potentials are on the way to awake.
and that silence or abscence is the time when we are connected to universe,the nature , the tao
only if somones mind can have silence. the absolute silence .

this happens in every negative feelings we have
when we feel fear its a lack of courage
when we feel hatered its lack of love
when we feel boredom its lack of joy
when we feel sad its a lack of happiness
when we feel angry its a lack of peace
when we feel sleepy its lack of awakening

simply look at the last thing 
when we feel sleepy its a lack of awakening
ohh yes !! is sleep is bad thing? 
no its our nessecity , without sleep you cant feel the refreshment.
without night you cannot have day

will you call night a bad thing? no 
the night is also a beautifull experience
the experience of abscence.

i am naming the abscence, its my mistake, but i am performing the mistake just to show you look how the loop happens
how we creates a lyberinth , a maze , a spider web in our mind , and we just lost ourselves in that maze. 
i am naming it silence but what if i want to tell you what is silence.
if some child comes to me and ask me , that sir what is silence?
how you are going to explain him.. you should take child to silent place and say nothing 

actually we should stay silent when it comes to discussion on such things 
we should never discuss the things which does not exist
if we are doing this we are creating illusions, 

in the veryfirst chapeter of LAOTZU , he just said
whatever can be speak is not that...

we must teach our next generation that language is just a mode of communication
like a vehical is a mode of transportaion..so there is only two things can happen
either you will have vehical or you will be without vehicle
in the same way
either you will have something or you will be without something.

i am counting all theses fundamentals in the terms of the things which exist

i will like to say i am without of a courage (i am feeling fear)
i will like to say i am standing without light (its dark here)
in this way of language the most amzing thing is 

there will be no more standards

like someone will say i am feeling little less courage(still he is in fear)
someone will say i am feeling,that,it is much hard to have courage(fear but with a hope)
but the way he is speaking is according to precise measurement of the feelings he is experencing.
the others experience is different so all will elaborate in different manners.
you have to run your neurons for this, you have to be aware on what you are experiencing.
because now we are inside the loop of language
we have phrases...the ultimate ilusions

these phrases are same for all how it is possible?
phrases are standards used by everyone... in a blind way a loop

so you have to be aware and ask what should i say and then you should say just by accurately examination about what you are feeling.
the good thing is if you dont find good line for that situation you can wait , it is possible that someone someday will say the exact phrase you wwanted at that time

in this way we are self aware and also aware in outer world.
thank you for now.